Patricia Jane (Joustra) Haadsma of Rockford, MI, age 87, went to be with her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, on Wednesday, April 25. She was born May 14,1930 in Grand Rapids to John and Martha Joustra. She will be lovingly remembered by her husband of 64 years, Roger, and their four children; Jim and Luanne Haadsma (Croton), Luanne and Larry Dewey (Carmel,IN), Mari and Dan Dawley (Enfield, NH) and Gail Sherry (Garrison, NY). She was a devoted grandmother to Jon and Tiffany Skilling (Indianapolis, IN), David Haadsma (Belmont), Sean Dewey (Indianapolis, IN), Nathaniel and Diana Haadsma (Chicago, IL), Trevor Dewey (St. Louis, MO), Leah and John Robinson (Traverse City, MI) and great grandmother to three, Lola and Hudson Skilling, and Owen Haadsma. Pat is also survived by her sister Donna (John) Antzack of Grand Rapids, brother-in-law Philip DeKorn of Rockford, and many special nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents,brother Russell Joustra, brothers- and sisters-in-laws Harriet and Robert Glupker, Marianne DeKorn, Robert and Irmalee Haadsma, and son-in-law Bill Sherry. Pat will be remembered for her zest for life, positive attitude, and deep love and devotion to her family. She was a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, great grandmother and friend, always going out of her way to create a memorable day, excursion, or special moment with her personal touches that were loved by all. Pat stayed at home to raise their four children while her husband Roger and his brother Robert ran the family dairy business, Haadma’s Dairy. She was known for serving a healthy sit-down breakfast before each school day, keeping house, creating time for fun and laughter, and always making sure the family ate dinner together. Pat always welcomed others into their home - spontaneous invitations were common. She loved to entertain with a homecooked meal and her signature “special touches” that she added to the home and table. Even her picnics were special! After her youngest children went away to college, Pat went back to work and eventually became a business owner. With her and Roger’s knowledge and love of antiques, she started Complete Estate Services which she ran for almost 15 years. She was known for her impeccable honesty and devotion to her customers. Pat was thoughtful, generous, and loving with a kind spirit. The positive impact she had on others was immediate and lasting. It’s not surprising that her favorite quote was “Enthusiasm is contagious!” No words can ever express how much she will be missed. The family will greet relatives and friends Sunday, April 29 from 3-6 PM at Stegenga Funeral Chapel, 1601 Post Dr. NE, Belmont. The funeral will be held Monday, April 30 at Stegenga’s with visitation from 10-10:45 AM and service at 11 AM. Donations can be made to the Fred and Lena Meijer Heart Center. To share a photo, memory, and sign the family’s online guestbook please visit www.stegengafuneralchapel.com To send flowers or a memorial gift to the family of Patricia Jane Haadsma please visit our Sympathy Store.
APR 29. 3:00 PM - 6:00 PM (EDT)
Stegenga Funeral Chapel - Belmont
1601 Post Dr. NE
Belmont, MI, 49306
[email protected]
https://www.stegengafuneralchapel.com
APR 30. 10:00 AM - 10:45 AM (EDT)
Stegenga Funeral Chapel - Belmont
1601 Post Dr. NE
Belmont, MI, 49306
[email protected]
https://www.stegengafuneralchapel.com
APR 30. 11:00 AM (EDT)
Stegenga Funeral Chapel - Belmont
1601 Post Dr. NE
Belmont, MI, 49306
[email protected]
https://www.stegengafuneralchapel.com
I remember “Ma” Haadsma as a kind and gracious lady. If a person’s family is their report card, “Ma” Haadsma got straight A’s. ❤️❤️❤️
- RD Johnson
Our heartfelt condolences to Roger and family. Although we didn't see you and Pat in the recent past, we will always remember you both for your kindness, generosity and good times. We have so many memories of all the wonderful fun times at your house, from super bowl parties, soup suppers, and visiting on your deck overlooking the lake, and the list can go on and on. RIP Pat and hearts and prayers for you, Roger.
- Anne & Karl Kopenski
So sorry to hear of Pats passing.So loved her,almost like a 2nd Mom to me when I started Babysitting for the 4 Haadsma kids when we lived on Harding Street, Rog,you and Pat were such a neat couple and its been good from time to time thru the years seeing you!! My love and Sympathy to all of you,she will be missed!! Judy Kloostra Hinken
- judy kloostra hinken
Unfortunately, we did not know Pat very long. We met her and Roger as lake neighbors - we live on Little Brower Lake and began talking with Roger as he walked past our house every morning. Then we met her and found them both to be so friendly, not to mention interesting. She became my hero. Her age, beauty, personality and "spunk" became an inspiration to me. I told my husband, "I hope to live that long and be just as dynamic as her." To know her was to love and admire her. We had an instant friendship. I often ran into her at MVP as she was walking out of the swimming exercise class. Like I said, "my hero." As I said, even though we did not know her that long, her passing will leave a hole in our hearts. God speed, Pat.
- Marlene and Jim Starr
Roger ( HOT ROD) and family So sorry at pats passing . I can hear her and Dena laffing up in heaven . We had a fabulous teenage together . You and family are in my prayers. Jack teitsma
- jack teitsma
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Jim & Lou only met your Mom a couple of times, but she always made me smile.She lit up the room with her smile and caring attitude. Lee & Brenda
- Brenda
The Taylor Family purchased the Country Basket Blooms for the family of Patricia Jane Haadsma.
- The Taylor Family
Prayers and our deepest sympathy to Roger, Jim, Luanne, Mari, and Gail for the loss of your wife and mother. Pat was like my 2nd mom whenever we had sleepovers as kids. You always felt welcome at the Haadsma's and Pat made every time exciting. She will be truly missed. Brenda (McLouth) Harris
- Brenda Harris
Arrive in Style was purchased for the family of Patricia Jane Haadsma.
- Arrive in Style
Divine Peace Bouquet was purchased for the family of Patricia Jane Haadsma.
- Divine Peace Bouquet
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